I’m sure we’ve all recently reminded ourselves or someone else about what is desired versus what is necessary. It’s easy to get stuck in the mode of dealing in material objects. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs helps remind us about sometimes overlooked needs beyond the basics.
The most important thing that Maslow’s Hierarchy does for me is to remind me to be compassionate, more patient and to make sure that I attend to other’s mid-range needs.
Physiological
Probably the most frequent reference I’ve heard to Maslow’s Hierarchy has been when educators talk about how it’s impossible to educate children when they come to school hungry, tired or otherwise unready to concentrate and attend to learning. That the federal government spends over $16 billion in lunch programs is a testament to the support of this thinking.
Safety
Safety can also be considered as security. Are learning environments free from physical, emotional and social dangers? Do learners feel safe in and out of the learning space? While as educators we need to be aware of signs of abuse and neglect, we have the most control over the space where we teach and learn. It’s important to create positive environments that are challenging, yet supportive.
Love and Belonging
We still have a need for our tribal group. At this time of year many people talk about their created families. What is this but a way to form and acknowledge connections and positive relationships?
Esteem
In a group, it’s important for each member to feel that his/her self and contributions are valued. This esteem is both internal and external; individuals should value themselves, and be valued by others.
Self-Actualization
In this level, individuals seek to realize the full potential of themselves; they purposely strive to demonstrate their best versions of themselves.
The connection between the lessons of Maslow’s Hierarchy and this time of year seem quite clear to me. With the gift-exchanging, the heightened expectations and the sometimes self-imposed stress, the holidays can feel overwhelming. By reminding myself of the needs of others, and myself, it centers me on what is important.
I remember how lucky I am that so many of my needs are met. Sure, there are times when various need levels are a bit shakier than other times, but overall, I’m safe, secure and loved. I remember how easy it is to remind someone else that they are important to and respected by me. The holidays are a wonderful time to do that. That’s what the exchanging of gifts should be, an acknowledgement of care and love.
